Monday, September 26, 2016

Why Relying on LinkedIn Messages Can Be Risky

From time to time I hear about misunderstandings and mishaps caused by poor communication through LinkedIn messages.

There might be cases where you turn to this channel because you are trying to reach someone and you don't have their contact information. Or perhaps you are using it because you commonly use LinkedIn messages among friends for routine communication.

But for many people this channel doesn't work very well and to rely on it for critical messages can be a risky practice. Your messages might not be seen or they might be seen and then lost.

First of all this happens because many LinkedIn users create a profile and update it from time to time but then rarely log in so they don't even see that there are any messages. Some light users might also log in but they are not familiar with the user interface and don't notice the pending messages. Others might see the messages, but visiting rarely they always have to wade through spammy recruitment messages and advertisements so genuine messages are rarely visible. Quite often people might see a message in notifications but not be able to find it after the first read.

Even if people are happy to receive messages through LinkedIn some of these messages might be missed for technical reasons. Messages sent with connection requests are notoriously hard to read on mobile apps and there are some odd behaviors which cause messages between connected people to be visible on the website but invisible on the app. People like me who are aware of these problems sometimes check the website to look for lost messages; most people do not.

You can usually tell if someone is likely to see your LinkedIn messages by noting how long it is since their last visible activity. When it was not even this year you can be reasonably sure that the inbox is very full. If it doesn't look like they spend much time on LinkedIn you might consider the alternatives. Even if they are heavy users they might miss a LinkedIn message.

To a certain extent you can predict which other messaging tools people might use based on the year in which they graduated, but this is a very crude method and fails with people like me, who prefer WhatsApp or WeChat to LinkedIn. But in general older people tend to prefer traditional email while younger people are more likely to use Facebook Messenger, WhatsApp, WeChat, Telegram and other messaging apps.

One way to find out how people prefer to receive important messages is to see if they ever wrote instructions. Many people who receive many contact requests post explicit instructions somewhere on their website. Try searching for "how to contact Firstname Lastname" or look on their website. Other people -- typically people who receive many pitches -- are deliberately hard to find.

But in the end there are some unusual means of communication that could turn out to be effective today just because nobody uses them. A traditional paper letter, for example, gets around the LinkedIn mailbox problem and the attempts of some people to keep their email addresses hidden. Most businesses have a well-known street address so anyone can mail a paper message. This is likely to be taken more seriously than a random cold email because of the higher cost of sending a letter. Any spammer could send a million emails but anyone who could afford to send a million paper letters could also send a servant to deliver a personal message on a silver tray.

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Monday, September 19, 2016

How Writing Preserves Your Thoughts

In a post from January 2012 -- How to Have More Ideas: The Magic of Notebooks. -- I argued that most people have ideas all the time, but then they let these ideas flutter away, never to be seen again. Some other people are careful to write all their ideas in notebooks. Re-reading these notebooks later makes you realize how much you think of is quickly forgotten. That is why writers are inevitably people who have the habit of writing down ideas before they are gone.

Writing down all your ideas in notebooks or electronic equivalents does preserve the basic idea but sometimes this is just the germ of a concept, the starting point for further work. More recently I have realized that writing out your thoughts more fully preserves these thoughts very effectively. Looking back now over the posts I have written for this blog over the last nine years I find now many thoughts that I developed a few years ago and have simply forgotten.

Between posts for this blog, freelance articles, speeches & articles I ghost write for others and chapters for books like Payforward Networking, I write the equivalent of two or three novels per year, so it is not surprising that I don't remember all of the detailed thoughts I have written down.

Some of these ideas later inspired lectures and remain fresh in my mind years later -- like Here Be Dragons, an essay about how culture impacts our life in some strange and surprising ways that you probably have never thought of. Many others describe methods I routinely use in my speaker coaching practice and are unlikely to be forgotten, like What Speakers Can Learn from Rock Guitar Solos, from July 2014.

Others record random thoughts about any topic that interests me, but by developing the concept over about 700-1000 words I record not just the basic idea but the entire line of thinking plus all the examples that inspired it. Re-reading these posts many years later I rediscover ideas that I might only recall partially, and it is very satisfying to reload the idea into my consciousness -- like reloading a memory from a Pensieve.

This is the case with posts like If Fish Could Draw, from September 2009, a reflection on how the limitations of one media often spur creativity in others, or the 2010 sequel If Fish Could Draw II about my search for the world's first fisheye painting, For the record this was apparently Jan van Eyck's The Arnolfini Portrait of 1434. There are many others, like the 2011 posts How a Prophetic 1946 Story Anticipated Today's Web and How Brunel Built Bridges, Steamships and Railways Without Email. 

Finding all these thoughts preserved not just in my private notebooks but in a public archive like this is very convenient. Sometimes I might recall that once I had been thinking about some subject but not remember all the details. With a quick Google search I can locate the post, re-read it and reload the thoughts into my head again.

Most of the time people write for other people, and all of the posts here were originally written for this reason. But taking the trouble to write down your thoughts in some detail is also a very useful way to capture and preserve our thoughts. Most likely you will be pleasantly surprised that you had so many ideas and will be happy to rediscover them again. Whether you write for a public space like this or a private journal it doesn't matter; what counts is that you capture the ideas while they are still on the top of your mind.

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Monday, September 12, 2016

Facebook's Underrated Role in Professional Networking

Most of the people I meet when I speak about networking are aware that LinkedIn can play a role in your professional networking. Few understand how useful Facebook has also become over the last few years.

Just five years ago people would often say that LinkedIn is good for professional networking while Facebook is a waste of time. The stereotype of a Facebook feed is an endless flood of cat pictures, invitations to play games and tacky advertising. Some people keep a Facebook account just for friends and family business and others don't bother at all.

But Facebook has changed and in the last five years it has become increasingly important for professional networking. This shift probably started in 2011 when, spurred by the launch of Google+, Facebook added the option of "following" people rather than becoming their friend -- a much more practical solution for business leaders. At the same time people who had grown up on Facebook moved into the workforce, keeping their habit of using the platform.

Now Facebook can play an important part in your professional networking for a number of reasons:

Everyone Has an Account. For every person with a LinkedIn account there are ten who have a Facebook account. Plenty of people who would never dream of having an account on LinkedIn are on Facebook and that's where you can interact with them. This becomes important when you learn how networking works. If you are just connected to your business contacts you miss many opportunities; what you should be doing is looking beyond the immediate connections at your broader network. (I explain about this in my book Payforward Networking).  For example, if you share on Facebook that you are looking for an internship perhaps a relative or neighbor who isn't a business contact might interact with the post and they might know someone who could help.

People are There Anyway. You might have professional profiles on other sites but most people don't check their LinkedIn or Viadeo profiles daily -- many just use it as an online CV. Facebook is different. You are probably there every day. Other people are, too, so they are more likely to see your posts. It's because of this regular use that Facebook has become a preferred channel for consuming news and also why it has becomes so important for group interactions, which brings us to:

Many Organizations Use Facebook Groups. If you are a member of some organization you might use their intranet to communicate, but what many people have found is that it is much easier to use a Facebook group, because people are there anyway. I belong to many Facebook groups like the TEDxStockholm team, the Quora Top Writers community and others. In these groups I share ideas with fellow team mates even if we are not otherwise connected. Most of my Facebook activity is, in fact, in these private groups. Many other people are the same. That person who appears to never use Facebook might actually be very active but only in private spaces.

You Hear About Meetups through Facebook.  Unless you live in a small village there is probably some interesting real-world meetup in your area every day of the week. When I ask people if they are attending some events they often ask how I hear about so many of them. The answer is Facebook events. Every time a friend shows any interest in any event I am alerted by Facebook. These days I find that I find more events through Facebook than through Meetup, though that, too, is highly recommended.

Facebook is a powerful tool for professional networking but if you plan to use it in this way you really need to have an account with your real name. Some people actually keep two accounts, a real name one for serious use and a fake name one for fun. This works but it means switching between accounts. More people are now starting to move the private interactions to Snapchat, Whatsapp and other channels.

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Monday, September 5, 2016

Speaking: When Silence Works Better Than Words

One of the easiest ways to improve your public speaking is to become better at using pauses. Initially people are afraid to leave pauses, especially at the beginning of their speaking career when they are still nervous. Other people tend to speak without breaks because they are trying to recite a memorized text -- never a great idea. See How to Memorize a Speech Effectively for the correct way to do this.

But a speech without pauses is much more tiring to listen to and people can miss key phrases as their brain struggles to parse a continuous stream of sounds without a break. It is the audible equivalent of trying to read Sir Thomas Malory's La Morte D'Arthur in the original, unpunctuated edition or a sentenceallruntogetherintoonebiglumplikethis.

Adding pauses helps people to understand what you are saying, it helps to attract attention and it helps to emphasize the key points. You can use pauses in several ways:

The Pause at the Beginning. One of the most common mistakes I see when coaching people is that they often start to speak too soon. It takes time for the audience to stop their side conversations, put their phones away and fully turn their attention to the stage. If a speaker starts too quickly they miss the first sentence or even more. You can avoid this by leaving a short pause before you start. Surprisingly this silence attracts more attention than speaking, and it is much more elegant than "can I have you attention please" (never, ever say that.)  What often happens is that the speaker starts instantly when the moderator has finished the introduction, saying something like "Goodmorningeveryonetodayiwilltalkabout..." while everyone is still trying to process that there is a new speaker. Much better to say "Good morning". (Pause). "Today I will..."  Don't forget to look at the audience and smile during the pause or people will just think you lost your place in the notes.

The Pause to Mark Change. Pauses are also very effective to mark changes in the subject or the beginning of a new section.When you are looking at your own script or notes there is a handy white space between paragraphs. The audience doesn't see this white space so a pause can be an audible equivalent. After a break people can recognize more easily that there has been a shift in the story. A pause can also be useful when a new image is shown on the screen. In the first few instants this image competes for attention anyway so people might not hear what you say. One other way to reinforce the idea of "new paragraph" in a talk is to combine the pause with a change in the direction the speaker is looking. This adds to the feeling that we are moving on in the story.

The Pause for Effect. Finally, pauses are a very effective way to underline some key point. Stop suddenly and you have everyone's attention. Whatever follows that pause is much more likely to be noticed, heard and processed. There should also be a pause just after every rhetorical question. These pauses often make the difference between a dull recital and a compelling, persuasive speech. Watch any great speaker on YouTube and you will see that they make very good use of the Pause for Effect.

Next time you are preparing a talk, speech or lecture take special care to pause in all the right places and get used to the sound of silence. At the beginning it can feel uncomfortable, but what how others use pauses and you will see that a short pause is always welcomed by the audience. Try watching any important speech on YouTube and you will see that this technique is part of the essential toolbox of orators everywhere.

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Thursday, September 1, 2016

Why Email Leaks Can Affect Everybody

In two recent posts, Best Practices for Writing Leak-Resistant Emails and The Enemy is Listening I explained how you can never stop all email leaks therefore it is prudent to write defensively. Discussing this with other people I realize that when most people think about email leaks they are thinking about the big stories, where malicious hackers extract email databases through security flaws in the network, or when a rogue human walks out the door with a copy of the files. But there are also countless minor leaks that can affect almost anyone, even if they are never careless.

Emails can leak in so many ways you would be very brave to rely entirely on your security processes to protect them. What's worse is that often a mail leaks and you have no idea that it has. Perhaps the leak wasn't even at your end, because an email sent to someone else can easily leak at the other end, too.

So how do emails leak exactly?

Misaddressing. One of the most common ways that messages can go astray is when you are filling in the email address. It is easy to mistype an address and if that address doesn't exist it will bounce and no harm is done. But very often the mistyped address does exist and someone else receives the message. Most of the time it will be deleted by the recipient but if your message is interesting in any way the person on the other end might leak the content.  Most email clients allow you to memorize previously used addresses and in this case there is a very real risk of selecting the wrong one, so your message doesn't go to a stranger but goes to the wrong person. Very often this happens when a message for one customer is sent by mistake to their competitor, with embarrassing results at the least.

Misforwarding. Equally common is the risk of forwarding a message inappropriately. There are several ways in which this can happen. First of all it is easy to forward a thread to the wrong person entirely. What is much more common perhaps is to forward a thread to the right person but without checking what is further down the thread. I have seen many people embarrassed by this kind of mistake. Never forward a message unless you are sure there is nothing sensitive at the bottom of the thread.

Phishing. Remember all of those messages telling you that you have won a billion dollars in some mythical lottery? Some of them are phishing for bank details but others are looking for your email credentials. Even if you are incredibly careful with phishing emails, all it takes is for one of your contacts to be compromised and the copies of your messages in their inbox are vulnerable. Scammers do not have your best interests at heart so they are much more likely to use any data they find than an accidental wrong recipient.

Weak passwords. Knowing your email address and a little about you someone might get access to your email simply by guessing your password. If you re-use passwords on multiple sites then they might find your credentials in one of those password file dumps that appear from time to time. Always be careful to choose a unique password for your email accounts.

Stolen files. Someone could access your emails simply by copying email data from an email server, your laptop or your phone if they are left unattended or are lost. This is how many major leaks occur.

Deliberate leaks. There are also, of course, deliberate leaks from whistleblowers, rivals, disgruntled employees and people you have just fired. They could easily forward sensitive messages to the media, to competitors or to the authorities.

Discarded paper copies. Finally, don't forget that a paper copy thrown away in an airport trash can can also be retrieved by an unauthorized person. That's why most organizations shred their waste and why you should be careful about emptying your bag in a public place.

There are probably more ways in which your emails can leak accidentally or on purpose even if you are not famous, powerful or rich. Be as careful as you want but you will never stop every leak, so learning to write emails that are less damaging is a useful skill to master.

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